Life often gives you special opportunities to dress in particular ways to attend special events. Often, you may be puzzled about how to dress for beautiful weddings, significant religious services, memorable birthday parties, and family get-togethers.
In this post, I will define some special occasions where you may need to dress in a particular manner. I will also give you some outfit ideas for these occasions. Additionally, I will provide you with some tips for putting together an ideal outfit.
If you groan when you get invited to an event because you never know how to dress for a special occasion, this post is especially for you. Others will also enjoy reading this post because it includes some beneficial information you can apply when putting together outfits from your wardrobe or shopping for special event clothing.
In this chapter, we will examine the definition of a special occasion and start exploring what you should wear to one. We will also take a brief look at different dress codes so that you have a better understanding of what to wear on a special occasion.
Depending on where you are in the world, you may participate in different special occasions. Some are fun, like New Orleans Mardi Gras and Munich’s Oktoberfest. Some mark special times in the life of someone close to you, like bar mitzvahs or quinceaneras.
While some are once-in-a-lifetime events, others may occur regularly, like family get-togethers and special holidays, like Saint Patrick’s and Valentine’s days.
For most special occasions, you will need to wear special clothes. Sometimes, like on St. Patrick’s Day and Valentine’s Day, one or more special colors are often worn.
However, on others, you may need to wear more conservative colors, like for an important job interview. On other occasions, bright festive colors will need to be worn. This post will help you know what to wear and when.
What is a special occasion?
A special occasion is a noteworthy event that you will recall years from now. Most special occasions are happy, but that is not true of all of them. Most are significant to you and your family’s future in some way.
Many special occasions are the start of something new. For example, a job interview can be a special occasion because it can mark the start of a new career.
An engagement party is a special occasion because it marks the beginning of a lifetime commitment to another person. A bar mitzvah or a quinceanera is a special occasion because they mark a person’s passage from childhood into adulthood.
Other special occasions mark the end of something. For example, a funeral marks the end of a person’s life, while a retirement party marks the end of a person’s career. College graduation showcases the end of a person’s formal schooling.
Other special occasions give a person time to reflect and be thankful for what they can look forward to in the future. For example, an anniversary provides a couple with time to reflect on the life that they have built together.
And plan how they want to make it better in the future. A birthday party provides a time to reflect on the joys of the last year and start planning for things in the coming year.
Other special occasions help break up the monotony of life. This is especially true of dinner parties or family get-togethers when friends and family gather just to have a good time. Events like concerts and cocktail parties often give a person time to relax away from everyday stress.
Why is it important to dress appropriately for a special occasion?
Special occasions are meaningful events etched into a person’s memory. If you reflect on the special events you have attended, the chances are that you can describe what one or more people were wearing in detail. Therefore, you want to ensure that people recall your outfit for the right reasons instead of remembering your fashion snafus.
I recently attended a friend’s wedding. The groom and bride were simply glowing with their love for each other. The wedding was a casual affair held at a park. The bride’s parents and the groom’s mother wore brightly colored outfits.
The groom’s dad looked like he was going to a funeral dressed in a black monochromatic outfit. He stands out in all the family wedding photos because he earnestly looks like he is in mourning. The couple’s kids and other relatives will see these photos for years to come, as well as be etched in people’s memories.
In addition to photos that may be passed down for generations, wearing the wrong clothes shows disrespect for the honored person or their family. For example, wearing bright colors to a funeral may make it look like you are happy that the person has died.
The exception is if the family is holding a celebration of life service and asking everyone to wear a particular color. This same thing can happen at first communions and baptisms when a person wears clothes that are not appropriate for a religious ceremony.
In many cases, you will not be entirely sure who will be at an event. Wearing the wrong clothes reflects poorly on you and may hurt your chances to move ahead in a company. Additionally, helping promote a particular organization, like a nonprofit, may reflect poorly on the group.
How do you dress up for a special event?
You can dress for a special occasion in many ways because it depends on the event. In some cases, you will be given a dress code to follow, and in other cases, you can judge based on the venue where the event is being held. If you are in doubt, consider asking the event organizer what types of clothes you should wear.
For example, if the event is a quinceanera or a charity gala, women may want to wear a formal dress while men will want to wear a suit. Religious events often require suits or dresses coming at least below your knees. In those cases, you may also need to keep your shoulders covered, and you may need to cover your head at some.
If the event is held at a restaurant, you can often gauge what you should wear by the restaurant’s dress code. For example, if a baby shower or an engagement party is being held at a tea restaurant, short dresses and other casual clothes may be appropriate. Alternatively, if it happens at a fancy steakhouse, then you may need to wear a suit or a dress coming below your knees.
You can sometimes get an idea of what to wear on a special occasion by considering the time of day that the event is occurring. Generally, events held before 6 p.m. are less formal than those held in the evening.
Some special events are very casual. For instance, some sports programs require that you wear your clean uniform over another shirt. Then, at the end of the event, the uniforms are turned into responsible individuals. A music festival is another place where you can usually wear shorts or jeans.
What are the levels of dress code?
There are generally ten dress code levels, but some add newer levels that better describe what they want people to wear, like tropical, country, or destination. Generally, dress codes can be divided into three larger groups, and knowing the different levels can help you dress appropriately for most occasions.
The most formal dress code is white tie, where women will need to wear a ball gown and men will need to wear a white tuxedo. Black tie is the next level, where guys wear a black tuxedo and women wear a formal.
Other formal dress codes for parties include black tie creative and black tie optional. Under these dress codes, men can wear a suit, and women have the option to wear an embellished cocktail dress or another upscale outfit that allows their ankles to show.
A few companies still have a formal dress code. Men must wear conservative-colored business suits, and women must wear suits and high heels, especially for special occasions.
Other special occasions often have a casual dress code. The breaking point between the two is smart casual, where men can wear blazers and sports jackets while women can wear dresses, jumpsuits, and trousers.
This dress code is very similar to business casual, which is what many people wear to the office every day. A casual dress code could include jeans, miniskirts, and slacks for women, jeans, shorts, and chinos for guys.
What are the different types of occasions?
There are many types of special occasions. Generally, they can be divided into four broad categories. One group is those affecting your family life, while another group is those affecting your business life. There are also special occasions for special groups that you are a member of and those that are just for fun.
Family special occasions often span the spectrum from before a person is born until the time that a person dies. These special events might include baby showers, first communions, baptisms, engagement parties, weddings, and funerals.
Depending on the family, these events might also have religious connotations, where a community is invited to pause and honor a special moment in the life of one of its families.
Business special occasions often span a person’s entire career. They can include getting a promotion, recognition for doing an outstanding job, or the company moving to a new location. Some special occasions for work occur on an annual basis, like company-wide picnics or stockholder meetings.
Special events because you belong to a group or want to show support for a group can also cover many types of events. For instance, some sports teams hold dinners at the end of the season to hand out special awards.
Other special occasions are just for fun. This might include going to a music festival or a concert. It might also involve going to a festival, arts and crafts show or a special celebration in a city, where the whole community is invited.
In the next chapter, we will examine many types of special occasions. I will define them and give you some examples of what to wear to these special events. Therefore, I encourage you to keep reading.
I will also define the typical dress code and give you some outfit suggestions. It is my goal to calm your fears, which will help you relax so that you can have a great time.
Some people get nervous knowing they must attend a special event. Most often, the nerves come because they do not know what they should wear. Therefore, the thought of showing up in the wrong outfit and embarrassing themselves and the person being honored paralysis them.
If you can relate to this scenario, take a deep breath. I will try to help you with this post. Still, if I don’t mention the particular event you will be attending, check out our other fashion posts, where you are likely to see the topic covered because only a chicken would let their fear paralyze them to the point that they stay home.
A person has married their best friend at the end of a wedding. These ceremonies often include a religious ceremony and a reception. Weddings can have many types of dress codes, ranging from casual to black tie, so read the invitation carefully.
One type of dress code that you may see is garden. In this case, men may want to consider wearing a lightweight linen shirt with their dress pants and boat shoes. Men may move away from wearing their traditional black suit and opt for a pretty pastel one instead.
Women may want to wear a cute sundress with their wedges. Be careful not to add too much color to your outfit because this is still a formal dress code.
Another dress code that you might see is festive. With this dress code, you should let the wedding’s theme guide you while staying in smart casual to formal attire. Men may want to wear suits but add a brightly colored floral tie.
Depending on the wedding time, you may also want to wear a bright blazer with a white crewneck shirt underneath and black dress trousers. Women will want to wear a longer dress in a bright color.
One that is cold-shouldered or one-shouldered will be a perfect choice if it ends below your knee. Like garden, be careful to keep your color choices limited to one or two items in your outfit.
A cocktail party is a reception where mixed drinks are served. When organized for social or business purposes, they are occasionally called mixers. While these can be stand-alone events, they can also proceed with a wedding, a business dinner, or another event. As the name suggests, cocktail parties usually have a cocktail dress code.
Men will want to wear a suit, sports jacket, or a blazer and tie to a cocktail party. While you can wear almost any color, you will want to stick to a button-down shirt. There is no expectation that your jacket and trousers will match, but they should look nice together.
These events often serve as a bridge between more informal afternoon events and more formal evening events. Likewise, the dress code is not black tie, and it is not casual. It fits a narrow space between the two.
Women will want to wear a cocktail dress. These dresses usually have some sheen to them and typically end a little below the knee. In addition to being called cocktail dresses, you will find retailers referring to these dresses as party or tea dresses.
You can also opt for pantsuits, jumpsuits, or a blazer with a button-up shirt as long as you choose one in a fabric with a little sheen. Like the guys, you can have fun playing with color. Both sexes should avoid any clothes that look too casual or too formal.
No, we are not talking about the cold pizza you ate at your desk because you are about to miss an important deadline. In this case, we are talking about a dinner with your colleagues to celebrate an important milestone because you put forth extra effort and met an important goal.
Or the boss has hired an important speaker to come in to try to raise company morale. While there is some variation depending on the company’s culture, you will usually want to wear business formal to these dinners.
Men can wear a dark-colored suit, a white dress shirt, and a regular-width tie. Black, midnight blue, and dark brown are usually the best color choices. Consider the event’s formality when choosing a suit with or without a vest.
You can choose between ties that are solid color or those with a geometric pattern, like a club or paisley. You will also want to wear your dress oxfords or another style of formal shoes.
Women will also want to wear a suit. Opt for a structured blazer in a conservative color and wear it with a button-up blouse. Ideally, you will wear it with a matching skirt ending about your knees and your high heels.
Depending on the setting and your company, you may be able to swap out the skirt for a pair of dress trousers, but you will still want to opt for your high heels.
Workers in many professions, including lawyers, accountants, writers, and business owners, must often eat dinner with clients and potential clients to win or keep their accounts. If you need to take a client to dinner or are the one being taken to dinner, you must make a great impression through how you dress.
While there is some variation based on the chosen restaurant and other circumstances, you will want to wear at least business casual clothes, and you may need to wear business formal clothes.
Men, if you decide to wear business casual clothes, consider your industry. In some industries, like tech, you can wear jeans to these dinners along with a sweater, blazer, or both.
If your field is more academic, like a university professor, scientist, or pastor, you may want to wear a suit or a sports jacket. You may also want to wear your chinos with a polo shirt.
In most cases, women going to or getting taken to a client dinner will also want to stick with a business casual look. You can choose a skirt with a button-up blouse, a pretty jumpsuit, or a skirt ending about your knees.
In some professions, you may be able to wear jeans, but as a general rule, I would avoid them until a relationship is established. You may need to wear a business suit and high heels in other professions. It is usually better to err on the side of being too formal than too casual.
It is easier to say what not to wear to a funeral than what to wear because there are so many variables depending on the family’s wishes. Generally, you will want to consider wearing dark colors, except for celebration of life services, where a family asks you to wear a specific color that had significance in their loved one’s life.
Additionally, choosing clothes for a funeral can depend on the person’s culture. For example, while black is considered the color of mourning in the United States, white is viewed as the color of mourning within the Chinese community.
In South Africa, red is the mourning color, while in much of South America, blue is the mourning color. Since funerals are deeply significant, many families return to their roots.
While keeping those points in mind, men will want to wear a black suit to most funerals. Consider wearing a dark-colored suit with a button-down shirt. Tuck the shirt into your dress trousers and keep it there by wearing a belt. Then, put on your dress shoes or loafers.
Women have several choices on what they can wear to most funerals. They can choose to wear a dark dress or suit that ends a little below their knees. They should select an outfit that covers their shoulders.
In some religions, women will need to cover their heads, so it is always a good idea to come prepared. Women will want to wear jewelry that stays close to their bodies. Remember that funerals often have many people packed into a small space, so go easy on the perfume and cologne.
The type of job and company you are interviewing make a significant difference in what you wear to a job interview. A great way to think about what to wear to an interview is to dress for the job you want one day within the company instead of an entry-level position.
For example, if you are applying to be a plumber journeyman, then wear khakis and a button-down shirt, but if you want to be a stockbroker, wear a conservative-colored business suit.
Men, for most positions where you only need a high school diploma or a certificate from a trade school, an excellent choice for a job interview can be a button-down shirt with a tie. Then, wear a pullover sweater and a dressier pair of khakis with your dress shoes.
Alternatively, if you need a college degree for the job, then wear a conservative-colored business suit with a white button-down shirt and a solid-colored tie.
Women, you will also need to adjust your wardrobe based on your desired position. If it is an entry-level interview requiring a basic education, then consider a dressy blouse with your tailored dress pants.
If a college degree is required, opt for a structured blazer, button-up blouse, skirt, and dress shoes. Regardless of your sex or position, ensure that everything is clean and neatly pressed. Do not wear anything that needs repairs done to it or has holes, even if that is the outfit’s design.
A birthday party is a joyous occasion, and you should wear at least a pop of color. Before the party, it is vital to determine how formal the party atmosphere will be as you want to dress accordingly. Some parties, like quinceaneras, require you to wear a long dress or a suit and tie, while others are much more informal.
Men, if you are going to a formal birthday party, then consider wearing a light-colored suit with a bright-colored tie. One of my favorites is a light gray suit with a burgundy tie. If the party is more informal, consider wearing your chinos with a polo shirt and your favorite sneakers.
If the party is for an adult, it is nearly impossible to go wrong with a smart casual outfit. Consider pairing a denim overshirt with a light blue plaid button-up and wear it with your tan chinos and derby shoes.
While some birthday parties will require you to wear your formal, you can go much more casual to most. A short dress ending above your knee is a terrific choice. You may also want to wear a pair of high-rise trousers with a crop top and a deconstructed blazer.
An informal birthday party is a perfect time to play with colorful jewelry. Think about wearing your black pencil skirt, a bright mock turtleneck, and your kitten heels to a smart casual birthday party.
Men and women will not go wrong when selecting colors when they opt to wear split complementary colors together.
End-of-season sports celebration
End-of-season sports celebrations are perfect for wearing your favorite colorful casual outfit. Consider warmer colors, like red, oranges, and yellows, for spring and summer sports, like baseball and beach volleyball. Consider wearing cooler colors for winter sports like ice hockey and football. Blues and greens can be terrific choices.
A black leather jacket worn over beige chinos with a blue turtleneck can be a terrific choice for a winter end-of-season sports celebration. This outfit will look amazing with your black Doc Martens.
Consider wearing a light orange plaid shirt with your white jeans and sneakers in the summer. You may also consider wearing tailored dress shorts with a polo shirt and boat shoes.
Women have several choices that they can wear, assuming the end-of-season sports celebration is a casual event. In the winter, consider wearing a printed sweatshirt over a button-up shirt with your favorite designer jeans and your black ankle-high boots or your long gray cardigan over a white pullover top with a boat neck.
Your black leather pants are a fantastic choice when paired with your kitten-heel boots. Think about wearing your floral midi-skirt with your white t-shirt and sandals for summer celebrations.
You may also consider wearing your shorts with a brightly colored crop top and slides. For both men and women, consider wearing your team’s colors. After all, you should be very proud of your accomplishments throughout the season.
A dinner party is another occasion where you will need to gather some information. Hopefully, the host or hostess has provided details that will help you judge if the dinner party is a formal or casual event. If not, then you will need to find out.
If the dinner party is formal, you need to know if it is a white or black tie. I will assume it is a black tie affair because white tie events are usually reserved for significant people who probably do not get their information from this post.
Men, if the dinner is formal, you need to wear a black tuxedo with a black bowtie. You will also need to wear a white tuxedo shirt and your tuxedo pants. Alternatively, if the dinner is a casual event, consider wearing clothes close to your body.
A terrific option for dinner at a friend’s house is your blue jeans and your favorite t-shirt. If you need to go a little more upscale, consider wearing your rugby shirt with dark-wash jeans and your fashion sneakers or light-colored cotton trousers with a button-down chambray shirt. You can still wear your sneakers.
If you are heading to a formal dinner, you need to wear a long dress. When heading to your best friend’s house for a couple’s dinner, consider your jeans and a button-up blouse.
Alternatively, you can dress in a smart casual style by trading your jeans for a pair of tailored capri pants. You could also opt to wear a one-shoulder top with your black tuxedo pants.
You have milliseconds to make a first impression, so whatever you choose to wear needs to be a little quality as no one wants to date a person they think will have trouble supporting themselves.
The vast majority of first dates occur at a casual restaurant, so I am making that assumption, but you will need to adjust your wardrobe accordingly if that is not the case.
Men, your blazer is an excellent option for a first date. Wear it with a button-up shirt and a pair of dress trousers. Choose a necktie complimenting the color of your blazer. Another option is your leather bomber jacket.
Wear it on top of a black crewneck t-shirt and put on your black jeans. Do not forget to accessorize this outfit by wearing a rugged luxury watch and a pair of sunglasses.
Women have several choices on what to wear on a first date. A pair of black leather pants and a one-shoulder white silky top is a great choice. You can accessorize the look by wearing hair accessories and a tennis bracelet to help balance out your look.
Another fantastic choice is a frilly dress with your white sneakers. You can easily add a gold bracelet and a gold choker necklace to this outfit. Regardless of the look, men and women should ensure the outfit is spotless and does not need any repairs.
Before heading to a concert, you must consider the musical style and dress appropriately, or you will look horribly out of place. No one wants to hear chains rattling during a western concert or have their view blocked by a cowboy hat during a rap concert. Therefore, you need to wear the right outfits for each.
Men, when attending a rock concert, consider wearing your ripped blue jeans with a long white t-shirt and covering it with a black bomber jacket, but if you are going to hear a symphony, then think about your black suit with a subdued tie.
You cannot go wrong wearing a cowboy hat and your jeans with a pearl-snap shirt to a country western concert. If heading to a rap concert, wear your long white t-shirt and your ripped black jeans along with your Doc Martens. Be sure to add plenty of metal to your outfit.
Likewise, women will want to dress according to the musical genre. A sleeveless tank top with your Moto jacket and jeans is a great option when going to a rock concert. If the symphony is more your style, wear your favorite cocktail dress.
A denim skirt and a paisley button-up blouse are an excellent choice for a country western concert. If headed to hear your favorite rap artists, your distressed jeans and a band t-shirt is a great option.
Baby showers are another area where you need to ask some questions. Baby gender reveal parties often have a dress-your-guess theme, where men wear a pink tie if they think it is going to be a girl and a blue one if they think it’s a boy.
Likewise, women wear a pink top if they believe it’s a girl and a blue one if they feel it is a boy. The dress code for most traditional baby showers is smart casual.
Men may want to skip the blue or pink tie and opt for a blue or pink t-shirt under a warm button-down cardigan for a baby shower. Then, finish your outfit by wearing a pair of tapered jeans and your favorite sneakers.
You could also opt for a pair of dark jeans and a matching blazer. Then, wear a button-down dress shirt under the sweater.
Ladies, look great in a flowy dress that ends just above the knee. Be sure that the dress incorporates your guess, or add a beautiful silk scarf around your neck with your guess.
You may also want to wear an asymmetrical skirt, a frilly blouse, and your kitten-heel sandals. If there is any doubt in your mind, it is far better to overdress the occasion than underdress it. Your accessories can completely change the look of an outfit.
While many bridal showers are for ladies only, inviting the guys is becoming more popular. Some couples ask only specific men, like the groom, his father, the bride’s father, and the groomsmen.
When invited to a bridal shower, look for a dress code or consider the type of party the bride is likely to throw. Avoid wearing white because even at the bridal shower, the color is reserved for the bride.
For a casual bridal shower, men wear a light-colored pair of linen pants and a button-down shirt with a tie or wear dress trousers and a polo shirt. If the bride likes more formal events, wear your blazer or sports jacket over a crewneck shirt and a pair of dress trousers.
Bridal showers are the perfect place for women to wear their frilly dresses. Ones that end about the knee are an ideal choice. If the idea of wearing a dress is an instant turn-off for you, wear your dress trousers with a frilly top.
One with batwing sleeves or an asymmetrical top can be a great choice. You may also consider wearing a ruffled skirt and a silky top. Usually, bridal showers stick to the same colors as the wedding, so if you can determine the colors, avoid these colors when choosing your outfit.
It really does depend on your family what you need to wear to a family get-together. If older adults will be there, you may want to skip anything that is too revealing out of respect for them.
You will also want to consider the weather and the reason for getting together. Special holiday meals are usually a little more formal than family reunions, but that is not always the case.
Men, if your family is like most I know, your casual clothes are an excellent option for most family get-togethers. Consider wearing your favorite jeans with your sneakers. Then, wear a button-down shirt under a pullover sweater.
You may also want to wear a pullover shirt with a V-neck collar, your skinny black jeans, and your black leather bomber jacket. You can have fun with accessories, like dog tag necklaces, watches, and sunglasses.
Women may want to wear a t-shirt with a pencil skirt and strappy sandals. You may also want to create a monochromatic outfit with your jeans and a denim shirt. You can opt to wear kitten heels or your favorite sneakers.
If you want to go a little more upscale, consider an asymmetrical skirt and wear it with your ankle-high boots. You could go several ways for your top, but an oversized shirt is a fantastic option. Keep your makeup natural when wearing casual clothes, or skip it altogether.
You should feel honored to serve on a jury, even though it may disrupt your life for a bit. Most states have a jurors’ guide on what people are not allowed to wear when serving on a jury. Generally, you will want to avoid jeans and other casual clothing styles. You should also wear closed-toed shoes.
Men, when serving on a jury, wear a suit coat and a button-down dress shirt. You will also want to wear your dress trousers with a belt and a tie. You may want to put a sweater under your suitcoat depending on the weather. Choose options that are in dark conservative colors but avoid wearing black.
Women, a blazer with a button-up shirt is your best option. You can opt to wear it with a skirt or your dress trousers. You should stick to conservative colors like the guys, but avoid wearing black. You will want to put on your closed-toed high heels.
It is vital for men and women to wear clothes that you can sit in comfortably as you may be spending hours in the jury box. You will also want to go easy on the perfume or cologne because it can be overwhelming when too many smells are in a tight space.
While you need to check the rules in your state, it is illegal in many states to wear a uniform in court, even if you are a police officer. Your credibility with the judge or jury can affect how they view your testimony, so be sure to dress in business attire. It also shows that you respect the seriousness of the situation.
Like the jury, men may want to wear a suit with a conservative-colored tie and dress shoes. Male witnesses may also want to wear a conservative-colored blazer with a button-down shirt and a dress tie.
Dark leather shoes are the best option for footwear, so put on your leather oxfords. If you have tattoos, most courts will ask you to cover them up.
Likewise, women will want to wear a blazer with a button-down shirt and dress trousers or a pencil skirt. Ensure that your skirt does not end above your knees because you do not want it to be too revealing.
While you can always wear your wedding ring, you should avoid statement jewelry. Avoid wearing any outfit that is too colorful or that mixes colors in unusual ways, although you may want to add one tiny pop of color to your outfit.
In many Hispanic and Latino cultures, a girl turning 15 gets a huge birthday party thrown for her. This party, called a quinceanera, celebrates the end of her childhood and the beginning of adulthood.
It often starts with a religious ceremony involving kneeling, so be sure you can kneel and get up when choosing your outfit. You will want to wear colorful clothes, but avoid wearing the color that the birthday girl has chosen for her quinceanera dress.
If the quinceanera occurs in the evening, men must wear suits. Tuxedos are viewed as too over-the-top for these parties. The suit can be any color if it does not match the boys and men in the quinceanera party.
If the quinceanera starts before 6 p.m., a man can wear a blazer or sports jacket. He should still wear his dress shirt and a tie.
Ladies, you have a little more freedom in what you can wear, but you still need to wear formal-style clothes. Most women wear long dresses. Any style is appropriate but avoid dressing like the damas accompanying the birthday girl.
Especially for quinceaneras occurring earlier in the day, a sparkly cocktail dress or an embellished jumpsuit can be a great choice. Stick with wearing your high heels regardless of your dress choice. This is the perfect time to wear your best jewelry and fix your hair in an updo.
It depends on the anniversary and the couple, what they want to wear on their anniversary. Some couples choose to host special parties on their 50th anniversary. If you are invited to this celebration, you must know what to wear.
The man married for 50 years will want to wear a suit with a dress shirt and tie. Usually, dark-colored suits with a white or light-colored shirt are considered the best option. Gold is the color of a 50th wedding anniversary, and many guys choose to wear a gold tie.
If you are a man invited to one of these parties, you will also want to wear a suit with a dress shirt. Depending on the event’s location and time, you may also want to think about your blazer.
Considering where the event is being held and the time of day is vital when a woman picks out her outfit. For events held in religious buildings, a lovely tea dress is often an outstanding choice.
Consider wearing an embellished cocktail dress or a fancy jumpsuit for those at a restaurant. This is a joyous occasion, so you can have fun with many colors or choose to wear gold in honor of the couple. Some couples decide to host a fancy dance to celebrate, in which case a long formal dress may make a great choice.
Attending a charity gala is a fantastic opportunity to wear your best clothes. Since many start with dinner, be sure to select an outfit that you can sit in comfortably. You will also want to join the dancing fun, so wear shoes that allow you to move easily.
Some galas are white-tie affairs, but most of them are black-tie events. Men will need to wear their tuxedos. Do not try to swap out tuxedo pants for flat-faced dress trousers because tuxedo pants have a line of ribbon or satin going down their sides. You will want to wear a tuxedo shirt with cufflinks. Put on your black leather dress shoes.
Women need to wear a formal to a charity gala. Of course, you will want to get your hair fixed in an updo and do your makeup for a special occasion. You can choose between many styles of formals. One of the most popular styles is the ball gown, and it is the only style you should wear to a white-tie gala.
Otherwise, you can choose between a mermaid, sheath, A-line, trumpet, and many other types, but you need to stick with a long dress. The most important thing to remember is that only your ankles, at most, should be visible.
You will want to wear your dressy high heels. If you simply will not go if you have to wear a dress, consider an upscale jumpsuit. You also need to wear your fanciest jewelry or ask your family for permission to wear the family jewels.
A bar mitzvah occurs on a boy’s 13 birthday. In most cases, the ceremony is held during a synagogue service, but it is becoming more common for families to host a private ceremony. It indicates that the boy is ready to observe religious precepts and can take place in public worship.
If you are not a practicing Jew, you may be offered a prayer shawl by an usher at the door, especially if you are male, but it is polite to decline it. There are variables within synagogues if a woman will be offered one, but you should also decline it if you are not a practicing Jew.
It is considered rude not to attend the religious ceremony and only go to the party afterward unless it conflicts with your religious service times.
Men, if you have been invited to a bar mitzvah, you need to wear a Kippah or yarmulke, regardless of your religious affiliation. It is viewed as a sign of respect to God, so refusing to do so would be offensive.
While many synagogues have a basket of kippahs near the entrance, families often have special ones made for bar mitzvahs. You will want to wear a neutral-colored suit, a dress shirt, and a tie.
Females also need to dress up for a bar mitzvah. Your shoulders should be covered, and you will want to avoid wearing anything that shows too much skin. A modest midi-length dress with pumps is a fantastic choice. You can also wear a nice pantsuit. Jewelry should also be kept very modest.
It is up to the couple getting married and how formal they want their engagement party to be. For most, smart casual seems like a good choice, but others may want a more formal or casual party.
If you do not have time to check with the lucky couple ahead of time, you can be pretty safe at most by wearing a blazer and dress shirt. Stick a tie in your pocket so that if most guests wear them, you will not look out of place.
You will want to wear your dress trousers and a belt. Therefore, you should always tuck in your shirt and wear a belt with a simple buckle. You can opt for almost any dress shoes with this look, so choose the most comfortable option.
Females who do not know the dress code ahead of time will look great in a slip dress with a little sheen to it. Consider one ending at the thinnest part of your calf. You can also go in a nice pantsuit. Any neutral shade would be ideal, but do not choose a white one as it will look like you are trying to steal the limelight from the woman who is soon to be a bride. Take cues from the venue about what shoes you should wear. In the summer, sandals are usually an excellent choice, while in winter, you may want to wear your pumps.
Many schools issue statements on what their graduates should wear under their graduation gowns. Usually, girls need to wear a dress ending about the knees while guys need to wear dress trousers. If the guest has chosen you as one of the people they want at their graduation, you should feel honored.
If you are a male guest at a graduation, you must wear business casual clothing. You can wear your khakis with a button-down shirt and a necktie. You may also want to wear a blazer or a sports jacket.
Make sure to consider where the graduation will occur and dress according to the weather. No one wants to experience heat stroke while attending a graduation. You will also want to choose an outfit you can sit in comfortably because graduations can be lengthy.
Women have many choices on what to wear to graduation. A nice pair of dress pants with a frilly top can be a great choice. You may also consider a wrap dress, a midi skirt, and a pullover top outfit.
A jumpsuit can also make a fantastic option. When choosing your footwear, consider where the event is to be held, and opt for a pair of shoes that you can walk in comfortably. Chunky kitten heels are often a fantastic choice.
Baptism is a ritual in many denominations. Therefore, it varies widely depending on where the event occurs. In most protestant denominations, a dress that ends about mid-calf is a fantastic choice for women, or they can wear a nice pantsuit.
Depending on the congregation, men will want to wear either a suit or a pair of khakis and a dress shirt. These baptisms occur at different ages, from birth through senior citizens. Baptism in the Catholic church occurs shortly after a child’s birth. Regardless of the type of baptism, you should dress modestly.
Men will almost always be safe wearing a suit. Since this is a celebratory occasion, consider trading out your white dress shirt for one in a pastel color.
You may even consider wearing a baby blue one if you are baptizing a boy and a baby pink one if you are baptizing a girl. You will want to wear a tie, but you may decide to take it off after you reach the church, depending on the level of formality.
Most women wear dresses, but a nice pantsuit or jumpsuit would also work. I particularly like wearing a blazer with a skirt and a patterned blouse, especially if you are likely to be holding the baby before or during the baptism. The pattern will help hide baby spit-up, and you can put on the blazer right before you stand before the congregation.
Like many other special occasions on this list, what to wear to a retirement party depends on many different factors, including the person’s position within the company and the company’s culture.
Some retirement parties are held during work hours, and the public is often invited to come as they are to wish the person well in the next phase of their lives. Other retirement parties are exclusive events held by the family of the person retiring.
Men will want to consider the venue where the party is being held because it will affect their clothes choice. For example, a suit is highly appropriate if the event is held at a country club or in a five-star hotel restaurant.
Alternatively, if the event is being held at a casual restaurant, a polo shirt and your khakis are probably a great choice. Some people even opt to host a backyard barbecue. Then, your jeans and a graphic t-shirt may be ideal. Regardless, a retirement party is a celebration, so try to stick with light colors.
Women should also consider where the event will be occurring. A dress ending below the knee can be a terrific choice if it is at a more formal location. Your dress trousers and a pullover knit sweater can be a good choice if the party occurs at a casual restaurant. For a barbecue, consider wearing a pair of tailored shorts and a cute t-shirt.
I hope you have found this chapter very enlightening. In the next chapter, we will cover some general tips on what to wear on special occasions. Therefore, I encourage you to keep reading.
In this chapter, I will provide you with some general guidelines. While I purposefully left the last chapter broad, you will want to apply these tips when picking out your particular outfit.
I really like to think of this list as a checklist. If you cannot confidently answer yes to each of these tips, chances are that you need to choose a different outfit. Your outfit should make you feel confident, and if you do not, you will likely have a miserable time.
Alternatively, if you feel confident, you will probably have a great time because you will be thinking positively, and it’s a difference that people will instantly notice, even if they cannot quite enunciate it. Life is way too short to wear clothes that do not make you feel great.
Understand the occasion
The more you know about a special occasion, the more comfortable you will be going. Look back in the previous chapter because I have covered many of them in great detail. Most hosts and hostesses will be thrilled that you care enough about their event to ask questions.
You can find more details about many of them in other fashion posts on this site. While this may be your first encounter with a specific type of special occasion, your friends may have been to a similar event in the past. If the event has a professional involved, like a religious leader or an event promoter, they will be glad to answer your questions.
Consider the event’s venue
You can often learn a lot about a special occasion by considering where it is held. If it is at a restaurant or party space, then they probably have a website. Look to see what guests in photos have worn to past events. Think about wearing your flats or kitten heels if the venue is outdoors.
Consider that it may be windy when fixing your hair, and take steps to control it properly. Likewise, consider if it may be hot or cold during the event and choose an outfit you will be comfortable wearing.
Putting together layered outfits allows you to adjust your clothing throughout an event. The sun shining brightly through a window can make it very warm, while it is likely to be cooler once the sun goes down.
Focus on your body’s strongest assets
Each person’s body is a unique creation. Some people are tall and thin, while others are short and fluffy. Choose clothes that will emphasize your strongest assets. For example, the short person may want to wear a blazer that they leave open because the long lines will help elongate their body.
If your upper body is your strongest asset, consider cold-shouldered and one-shouldered tops, as they will help draw attention to those areas. If your stomach is large, consider tops with ruffles in that area as it will help camouflage it. But if your legs are your strongest asset, consider wearing short dresses when possible or opt for clothes that stay close to your body.
Choose the proper accessories
Almost all outfits look better when you wear accessories. Men, you may only need cufflinks and a luxury watch for a formal outfit, but consider carrying a bag and wearing your sunglasses for a more casual one.
Women, formal occasions are a great time to wear more sparkly jewelry. If dressing for a casual special occasion, choose jewelry that stays close to your body. When selecting your handbag, be sure to consider what you will be doing, as you do not want your purse getting in the way.
A formal event is often a great time to carry an embellished handbag, while a more casual one is ideal for a more laid-back style.
Ensure clothes fit you properly
Before a special occasion, you must ensure that your clothes fit properly. If you are determined to wear a particular outfit that does not fit right, make an appointment with a tailor well ahead of time.
Most have calendars that are filled six to eight weeks ahead of time, so it is vital to start early. For women, your tea-length dresses should hit you at the thinnest part of your calf.
Men with shorter-than-average arms may need to alter the arm length on their suits. Your suit’s arm should end just above the hinge where your hand meets your wrist. Therefore, a little of your shirt should show at the bottom.
Opt for clothes and shoes you are comfortable in
While you need to stay within broad guidelines, you will want to choose clothes that you are comfortable wearing. For example, if you wear a halter top where the straps keep falling, you will keep pulling them up.
Generally, women with larger breasts must wear shirts with wider straps. If an outfit is too revealing, you may not feel comfortable. In that case, consider adding some type of coverup.
Unless you are fulfilling a specific role, do not wear outfits where you do not adore the color. Additionally, avoid clothes with embellishments that you are likely to play with during the event.
If you decide you need a new outfit for a special occasion, ensure that you shop early. Remember that you can find some real bargains when the seasons change. Therefore, when possible, buy summer clothes at the start of the winter and winter clothes at the beginning of the summer.
Know if and when your state does not charge sales tax on clothing. Watch for special coupons that you can apply to your purchase. For example, many online retailers will give you a percent off if you sign up for their newsletters. If you are on a budget, always shop the sales racks and pages first.
Consider your body silhouette
Designers make various clothing styles look great on different types of bodies. Therefore, peek in the mirror before you go shopping. Generally, women with an hourglass figure look best in outfits with open or V-necklines, cinched in waistlines, and form-fitting tops.
Those with a pear or triangle body look best in strapless tops, wider skirts, and V-necklines. Thin or athletic women will look ideal in outfits with embellishments near the waistline and outfits that make the woman appear a little wider, like colorful bows on the side or a cheery handbag carried by hand. Those with an apple or round shape will want to think about fitted tops and outfits ending at their natural waistline.
Understand differences in sizing systems
If shopping online, consider that different countries use different clothing sizes. If you are ordering from a company in the United Kingdom, add two sizes to your normal size, but if you are buying shoes, you need to know how long your foot is in centimeters.
If you are female and shopping in Australia, add two to your normal dress size. Generally, women’s clothing sizes in France, Spain, Portugal, Germany, Scandinavia, and Italy are based on your hip measurement in centimeters. Men, if you are buying a suit from a European country or Japan, add 10 to your normal size.
Choose colors you look great in
Everyone has a color or two that they look super wearing. Choosing an outfit in that color is often a great way to boost your confidence level. People often look great when they choose a color based on their eye color.
Pink, dark blues, and light greens often look outstanding on blue-eyed people. If your eyes are green, consider shades of purple, dark greens, and pale yellows. Alternatively, people with hazel eyes often look great in orange, lavender, and burgundy. Finally, people with brown eyes will want to think about khaki, green and bright blue.
Consider the Length
Generally, outfits ending below your knees are ideal for most formal occasions, while those ending above your knees are perfect for casual occasions. If the event is a black-tie event or very formal, then only your ankles should peek out from under your outfit.
Men, pants that just graze the top of your shoe are considered more casual than other options. If you are short or slim, consider wearing trouser pants with no break as they will look very contemporary.
Trousers with a quarter break where the fabric just rests on top of the shoe are a popular option with most men. Trousers that have a single crease near your ankle are called half breaks.
This option is ideal for large men. Pleated trousers that are cut full throughout look fantastic with a full break, where the fabric falls in several creases where it meets your shoes.
In the next part, I will share some concluding thoughts and give you a chance to ask questions. Therefore, I encourage you to keep reading. I will also ask a couple of small favors of you that I would love if you carried out.
I have covered a lot of information in this post. Therefore, it is natural to have questions. I can almost guarantee that someone else reading this post has a very similar question, so please ask. We will do our best to give you an informative answer.
I want to ask you if you know someone who has a special event coming up to share this post with them. Then, when people start asking what to wear to their event, they can share this post with them. Likewise, if you have a special occasion occurring, share this post with those on your guest list.
While planning or preparing for your next special occasion, check out our other fashion posts. They are filled with helpful fashion information that you will want to know.